A woman remembers words that are spoken to her. She takes them to heart whether they are good words or bad words. She responds to words. That is why she will remember the...

A woman remembers words that are spoken to her. She takes them to heart whether they are good words or bad words. She responds to words. That is why she will remember the promise that you made to her, big or small. That is why the words, “I love you”, and “I am sorry” are so important to her.  That is why she will cry out of joy or pain just at words spoken to her.  That’s why she values conversations. That’s why she can be turned on by words alone and prefers being prepared for love making with words. That’s why if you call her by a special name like, “Darling”, or “Sweetheart” it will hurt her to find out you call another woman by the same special name.

That’s why compliments are so special to her. She feels good when her beauty is praised.  That’s why she can fall in love just by words spoken to her. That’s why if you promise her marriage and later break your promise it is going to bruise her dangerously.  That’s why the vows made to her on her wedding day are a big deal to her.  That’s why words can crash her or uplift her. That’s why one sentence can give her sleepless nights.

Words carry a lot of weight on a woman. She can remember words spoken to her years ago. So, gentlemen, before you use very intimate words with her, make sure you mean them.  Before you insult her or say something out of anger, realize how much you will hurt her. Before you choose to keep quiet or silent, thinking you don’t need to speak your mind, realize how much she needs to hear from you. Before you promise her anything, make sure you are ready to deliver.

She may long to hear you say “I love you”, but don’t say it just yet, if you don’t mean it, can’t follow through with actions of love. Words are powerful. A wise man once said that if you open your mouth, you give people the chance to see through your heart. Choose your words carefully.