Relationships • Master P • 26 December, 2023
Courtship is not a direct entry into marriage
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Don't be in courtship and keep quiet. Courtship is a period to know each other better and also a time to talk. Open your mouth and talk! Talk when you...
Don't be in courtship and keep quiet. Courtship is a period to know each other better and also a time to talk. Open your mouth and talk! Talk when you notice some attitude you don't like in your partner.
I know you are spiritual, I know you should pray about the matter but don't just pray about it, talk about it too. It is not a sin to point out those areas where your partner is not doing well. You either keep dying in silence or you open your mouth and talk about it. The issues you don't talk about in relationship/courtship will escalate into bigger trouble in marriage!
Don't go into marriage with the mindset of HE/SHE WILL CHANGE WHEN WE MARRY, if you're not OK with the things you observe about him in relationship/courtship, open your mouth and talk! If he is not ready to take corrections or work on those aspects, God will not judge you for walking away! Forever is too long to endure! Marriage is not judgement, it is not a curse, marriage is a blessing. You should enjoy it!
You observed that he shouts at you now that you're still courting, he doesn't forgive easily until you pursue him with calls for one week, he treats you as if you were the one who proposed marriage to him, and you're still in the relationship saying "I am convinced he is God's will for me". If God's will is not ready to work on himself, let him go! Marriage is to be enjoyed not to be endured. Don't marry someone who will stress out the life in you in marriage.
Many are married today but seriously stressed emotionally and mentally in the marriage. Courtship is not a direct entry into marriage, it is a time to know each other better. Use it well! Open your eyes and see what you're going into. Marriage doesn't change anyone, it will only amplify who they are and what they're bringing into it! If they want to change, let them change in courtship. Don't wait till you're married to him/her before you expect a change! Receive understanding!
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