This is something that a lot of people struggle to understand. Some even refuse to believe it’s possible. But whether it’s leaving behind a relationship or letting...

This is something that a lot of people struggle to understand. Some even refuse to believe it’s possible. But whether it’s leaving behind a relationship or letting go of a whole family, home, and shared life, some women do choose to leave the men they love. 

Love and romance are beautiful things. But in a long-term relationship, love alone isn’t enough to ensure a healthy, balanced, happy partnership. That’s why, sometimes, someone can be deeply in love but still choose to break up with their romantic partner. It’s truly heartbreaking when this happens. 

What makes it even sadder is that, usually, the reasons behind a decision like this could have been prevented. These things are often subtle but alarmingly significant. In many cases, it is these things that make all the difference between The One and Someone who is just a temporary partner. Here are some reasons women leave their relationship, even when they’re in love.

1. FEELING ALONE AND UNACKNOWLEDGED

Everyone wants to feel like they matter, even just to the most important people in their lives. If a woman is alone without her partner to support her, she may wonder if she’s important at all to them and decide to move on. This means that when the woman in your life talks about her problems, you shouldn’t dismiss them or tell her she needs to relax. 

When she discusses something she’s excited or passionate about, you shouldn’t just nod and look back at your phone in the next two seconds. When she talks about plans for the future or an idea she has, you shouldn’t dismiss it or say it’s ridiculous.

2. COMPARISON 

Nobody enjoys being compared to someone else especially if it’s an unfavorable comparison. This is even worse when you do it to your partner, the person you’re supposed to love and cherish above anyone else. If a partner compares the woman in their life to anyone to their ex, to a random stranger, to a family member, to a friend, to a colleague – they’re just asking for trouble. 

No one wants to feel like they’re in the shadow of someone else. Constant comparisons can be so damaging on one’s self-esteem that they count as emotional abuse. A woman who is aware of her worth will not stand by and tolerate it for very long and if she does, she’s become a victim of emotional manipulation and abuse.

@Master_P